Simone Merkl | Counsellor - In-Person & Online

Discover Your Relationship Archetype: Are You Showing Up From Fear or Faith? Merkl Marriage Counselling | Relationship Counselling Langley BC & Online Across British Columbia Discover why fear and protection patterns can unintentionally push your partner away. Learn how Jungian relationship archetypes, Fear vs. Faith, and emotional awareness can help rebuild attraction, intimacy, and connection. Why Does Fear Reduce Attraction? When people feel emotionally unsafe, they often

What Version of Yourself Shows Up When You Feel Unsafe? Online Marriage Counselling BC. Have you ever had a moment in your relationship where you thought: "Why did I react that way?" Maybe you became controlling when you wanted to feel close. Maybe you criticized when you wanted to feel understood. Maybe you shut down when you actually wanted connection. Maybe you searched for reassurance because you were afraid of losing the person you love. And afterward, you wondered: "Tha

Every relationship thrives on a sacred dance between Masculine and Feminine energy. When this dance flows, love feels effortless — a balance of giving and receiving, leading and trusting, direction and devotion. But when fear enters, this flow breaks. The Masculine stops giving. The Feminine stops receiving. The polarity — that magnetic charge of love — begins to fade. To understand why, we look to Archetypes — timeless patterns that shape how we love, lead, and relate. What

“What we fear in love, we often create — but when we face the Dragon of Fear together, we transform it into the guardian of our deepest connection.” Relationships hold the power to bring us our deepest joy — and, at times, our greatest pain. At the heart of many struggles lies what I call the Dragon of Fear: an emotional cycle that traps partners in patterns of overwhelm and abandonment. In this first part of the series, we’ll explore how the dynamic between the King and Quee