Simone and her husband have been married for 29 years, together for 35 years. She was motivated to start Merkl Marriage Counselling through some struggles she experienced in her marriage. She thought she had a happy marriage. However, found a pattern of unhealthy communication which eventually escalated and became a challenge for her. She sought couples counselling throughout her relationship but was not impressed with what was available. The counsellors she chose didn't have the necessary relationship training she needed, not all counsellors have the relationship training necessary to prepare you for the complexities of relationship issues. She felt there must be a better alternative. So, she went on a mission to find something that worked. Simone let this challenge direct her onto the path of becoming a counsellor. 

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When she was having difficulties, she learned about unhealthy patterns in her family structures. Some of the obstacles she faced were unproductive communication and coping mechanisms. But, she and her husband grew stronger and closer through overcoming unhealthy patterns of behaviour. Now, she desires to empower others to heal themselves, their relationships, and their families.

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Simone has always been interested in personal development, leadership skills, and relationship issues. However, felt compelled to help others on a deeper level by learning more about psychology. Now she is passionate about sharing these same skills and techniques with others. Whether you're struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, depression, or simply looking to live a more fulfilling life, she is here to help. Don't hesitate to reach out and schedule a session - together, you can work towards a brighter future.

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How she lives out her passion as a therapist:

As a therapist, she is committed to providing compassionate, non-judgmental support and helping others develop the skills they need to navigate life's challenges. She believes therapy is a collaborative process, and she works closely with her clients to identify their goals and develop a plan to achieve them.

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How she helps others:

Her passion is helping couples and individuals build stronger, more meaningful connections with the people they love. She specializes in using evidence-based therapies such as the Gottman Method, Relational Life, Emotionally Focused and Developmental Model Therapies to help her clients develop the skills to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and build trust and intimacy in their relationships.

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Personal:

Simone resides in Langley, BC, with her husband and three children. She enjoys weightlifting and pilates with her daughter Sydney who is training to follow in her mother's footsteps and is becoming a counsellor. Simone enjoys spending time with her family and friends. She is a huge Disney fan and enjoys going on Disney vacations with her family. Simone and her husband share a love of Formula 1 racing, nature walks, music, movies, shopping and going on vacations together.

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Therapy Qualifications 

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* Emotional Focused Therapy Masterclass: Advanced Issues in Couples Counselling

* Developmental Model Therapy: The Quest of the Mythical Mate

* Stenberg College Counselling Therapist Program

* Anger Management & Controlling Relationships

* Gottman Method Level 1 & Level 2

* Relational Life Therapy Level 1

* DSM-5/ICD-10 Certification

* Nonviolent Communication

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