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Counselling Services

Why Invest in Counselling?

Investing in counselling can create lasting effects in your life and relationships. There is a short-term commitment of your time and money. But, the long-term benefits of improving your relationships, health, career and self-improvement will remain with you. What else will you invest in that will enhance the quality of your life and the relational joy you experience? 

Merkl Marriage Counselling creates a safe counselling space where you can feel relaxed to use the new skills you are discovering. Merkl Marriage Counselling adjusts the treatment plan based on your unique needs as an individual or couple. You decide your success or failure based on your commitment to the process.

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Individual Counselling

50 Minute Sessions

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Couples Counselling

50 Minute Sessions

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Family Counselling

50 Minute Sessions

"I talk about the joy of a relational joy, which is the joy of being connected, being in the flow of relationality whether that's with a partner, with nature, with God, with yourself, with your kids - to be in a state of flow and connection. This is the only joy we humans feel." - Terry Real 

Please feel free to contact me for a free 20-minute consultation.

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Individual Counselling:

Both partners attending couples counselling can be beneficial, but individual counselling can make a significant difference in your relationship. It can inspire your partner to continue with couples counselling and give you the insight to heal your relationship or yourself. Remember, you have the power to choose what's best for you in the future, and one person can make a significant difference in their marriage or life.


At Merkl Marriage Counselling, we can help you explore the differences between masculine and feminine and how they affect the dynamics of your relationship. We'll work with you to develop strategies that can bring the natural balance and polarity back to your relationship or yourself. With our support and guidance, you can take the necessary steps to strengthen your relationship and find greater happiness and fulfillment in your life.


Types of Therapy:

- Jungian 

- Choice or Reality

- Attachment

- Cognitive Behavioural

- Narrative

- Mindfulness-Based

- Positive Psychology

- Rational Emotive Behaviour

- Gestalt

- Adlerian 

- Existential

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Couple Counselling:

Couples counselling can help inspire you and your partner to become a strong, united team. At Merkl Marriage Counselling, we specialize in Relational Life, Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused and Developmental Model Therapies to help you develop shared goals and values by working together. We understand that disconnection can cause immense pain for both partners, but our expert counsellors can help you connect on a deeper level with your partner.


By accessing your deeper emotions and needs, you can become more vulnerable with your partner, accept influence, and develop new ways of communicating. This can ultimately lead to stronger, more resilient relationships that can withstand the challenges of life. With our guidance and support, you and your partner can build a more fulfilling and long-lasting relationship.


Types of Relational Therapy:

- Gottman Method

- Relational Life

- Emotionally Focused 

- Developmental Model Couples or Couples Institute


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Family Counselling:

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Discover the Transformative Power of
Two-day Intensive Couples Therapy:

Invest in Your Relationship

Our two-day intensive marriage counselling sessions are priced at:

$3000 + GST

We believe your relationship is an investment in your future happiness and fulfillment as a couple. We are committed to supporting you on your path to a thriving and fulfilling marriage.

At Merkl Marriage Counselling, we understand that some couples require dedicated time and space to dive deep into their relationship issues. Our multi-day sessions offer an immersive and comprehensive approach to healing and growth.

Healing After Infidelity or Overcoming Relationship Challenges:

Whether you're working through the aftermath of a physical or emotional affair or facing other significant relationship challenges, our multi-day sessions provide the opportunity for intensive healing and transformation. We create a safe and supportive environment where couples can explore the root causes of their struggles and develop strategies for rebuilding trust and connection.

​Two-Day Sessions Include:

Gottman Method Resources: We utilize the renowned Gottman questionnaire and resources, helping us gain valuable insights into your relationship dynamics and identify areas that need attention.

Emotionally Focused Resources: Our approach integrates emotionally focused resources to enhance emotional intimacy, develop healthy communication skills, and promote secure attachment within your marriage.

Relational Life Resources: Benefit from techniques and tools from the Relational Life Therapy approach, designed to foster authentic connections, address power struggles, and cultivate healthier dynamics.

Individual Sessions: Each partner will have dedicated individual sessions to explore personal experiences, concerns, and goals within the context of your relationship.

Feedback & Goal Setting: We provide comprehensive feedback based on the assessments and individual sessions. Together, we'll collaboratively set meaningful goals for your journey ahead.

12 Hours of Intensive Therapy: Our multi-day sessions offer therapy to provide ample time for exploration, processing, and growth. The extended duration allows for breakthroughs and lasting change.

Take-Home Tools & Support Materials: You'll receive practical tools, exercises, and resources. These materials will support your ongoing growth and serve as a reminder of the progress you've made.

 Skilled Therapist: Recieve guidance from an experienced and empathetic therapist. We want to create a nurturing and non-judgmental space for your healing journey.

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