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Why Do I Feel So Lonely in My Marriage? Maybe He Does Care—Maybe You’re Both Afraid
When you feel alone beside the person you love, it can be easy to believe your partner doesn't care. But what if fear—not a lack of love—is creating the distance between you? “He doesn't care about me anymore.” “She doesn't love me the way she used to.” “If I really mattered, my partner would make more of an effort.” “We're together, but I feel completely alone.” “I don't even feel like we're a couple anymore.” If you've had thoughts like these, you may be experiencing emotio
simonemerkl
Sep 111 min read


🌹 See Her Again: How Attention and “Worship” Can Reignite Connection and Desire in Marriage
What you repeatedly notice, you become more capable of seeing. And what you repeatedly practice can become the relationship you live inside. Think about a garden. At the beginning, you notice everything. The colour of the flowers. The fragrance. The new growth. The tiny details. You don't need someone to remind you to look. You're curious. You're captivated. You pay attention. Relationships can be like that too. When you first fall in love, you naturally notice your partner.
simonemerkl
Aug 3112 min read


💔 My Partner Had an Affair. Can Our Marriage Survive?
The Truth About Betrayal, Trust, and Finding Your Way Back 🕊️ An affair can shatter your sense of safety. But it does not automatically decide the future of your marriage. You may be asking questions you never imagined you'd have to ask. Can I ever trust my partner again? Do they really love me? Was everything in our marriage a lie? Why can't I stop thinking about it? Why do I keep checking their phone? Why do I feel angry one minute and desperate to hold them the next? Shou
simonemerkl
Aug 3114 min read
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